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Emotional Relations

Emotional relations describe the interpersonal dynamics between any two persons in a genogram. Unlike family relations, emotional relations are not about formal partnerships but about the quality of the connection between individuals.

Adding an Emotional Relation

To add an emotional relation:

  1. Select a person in the drawing.
  2. In the detail panel, navigate to the Emotional Relations section.
  3. Select the other person and choose the type of emotional relation.

The emotional relation will appear as a distinct line style between the two persons.

Emotional Relation Types

Positive Relations

Type Description
Normal A standard, unremarkable relationship.
Normal
Harmony A balanced, harmonious connection.
Harmony
Friendship A warm, platonic bond.
Friendship
Best Friends A close, strong friendship.
Best Friends
Love A deep feeling of love between two persons.
Love
In Love A state of romantic attraction.
In Love
Emotional Connection A meaningful emotional bond.
Emotional Connection
Fan An admiring or fan-like relationship.
Fan
Limerence An intense, involuntary romantic attraction.
Limerence

Negative Relations

Type Description
Discord Disagreement or conflict in the relationship.
Discord
Hate Deep animosity between the persons.
Hate
Distrust Lack of trust between the persons.
Distrust
Hostile Active antagonism and aggression.
Hostile

Distance & Cutoff

Type Description
Indifferent Emotional indifference between the persons.
Indifferent
Distant An emotionally distant relationship.
Distant
Cutoff Estranged The relationship has been cut off; the persons are estranged.
Cutoff Estranged
Cutoff Repaired A previously cut-off relationship that has been restored.
Cutoff Repaired
Never Met The two persons have never met.
Never Met

Hostile Combinations

Type Description
Distant Hostile A relationship that is both distant and hostile.
Distant Hostile
Close Hostile A close relationship with hostile dynamics.
Close Hostile
Fused Hostile An enmeshed relationship with hostile elements.
Fused Hostile

Fused Relations

Type Description
Fused An enmeshed or overly dependent relationship.
Fused

Violence

Type Description
Violence Physical violence is present in the relationship.
Violence
Distant Violence Violence occurring in an otherwise distant relationship.
Distant Violence
Close Violence Violence within a close relationship.
Close Violence
Fused Violence Violence within an enmeshed relationship.
Fused Violence

Abuse

Type Description
Abuse A pattern of abusive behavior.
Abuse
Physical Abuse Physical harm or violence.
Physical Abuse
Emotional Abuse Psychological or emotional harm.
Emotional Abuse
Sexual Abuse Sexual abuse or exploitation.
Sexual Abuse
Neglect Abuse Abuse through neglect of care.
Neglect Abuse

Behavioral Patterns

Type Description
Manipulative One person uses manipulation to influence the other.
Manipulative
Controlling One person exerts control over the other.
Controlling
Jealous Jealousy characterizes the relationship.
Jealous
Focused On One person is particularly focused on the other.
Focused On
Focused On Negatively One person is negatively focused on or preoccupied with the other.
Focused On Negatively

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